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Top Mistakes That Every Married Man Make

Posted in Bloging

Getting married must be an exciting time for you. You guys are in love and are planning to spend all your life together. However, this taste of new love doesn’t last very long. For most of the husbands, the honeymoon period gets over just 2 months down the marriage. They stop treating their wives how they are supposed to be. After all, they got what they always wanted.

There are many mistakes that an amateur husband makes because of which the wife suffers. Let’s dwell deeper into the issue:

“Affection only means sex”

One of the most common mistakes that a newly married man makes that he only relates affection to lovemaking. The wife needs love and affection in other manners too. Like listening to her while she is talking, respecting her decisions, and avoiding manscaping. If you only want sex, is the place for you. In a marriage, everything is not about physical attraction. A marriage needs devotion and both of the parties need to take responsibility for it, together.

“Only the wife will take care of the child”

It’s an instant No-No. She has done enough of her part by giving birth to the child. She has been under tremendous pain during her labor days. You need to take responsibility for the child. If you leave everything upon her, she will start doubting your intentions and capabilities as a husband and a father. You wouldn’t want that to be your case, would you? Start taking care of your child. take care of your child’s food, play, hygiene, and sleep. Make sure that your wife gets her due rest even months after the delivery.

“Make minor as well as major plans without her consent”

You might think that planning a trip to Europe without consulting her will surprise her but, it won’t be the case. In a marriage, you share everything. You are supposed to be working as a team. Without consulting with her, you are basically telling her that her participation in such major planning isn’t required. You are downplaying her opinions and rights as your wife. This can be deadly for the future of your relationship.

“Be forgetful of major dates”

Men are usually known to forget important dates. Be it the wedding anniversary or the wife’s birthday, men have made their mark as the supreme obliterator of memories. You shouldn’t do that. Women hold these dates to the utmost importance. If you are casual about how she feels, you are digging your own grave here. Many marriages break because of this casual attitude of husbands towards the emotional feeling of wives.

“Work is primary, family comes second”

It is a very big mistake that men make. They assume their work hold their priority. Even more so than their family. Family always comes before work. You are working for your family, you haven’t created a family for your work. Understand this. Maintain a work-life balance and enjoy every bit you can with your wife and child.



How To Prepare For Your Moving Day? Moving and Packing Tips!

Posted in Moving

There definitely comes a time where you need to pack everything in your home and move to a new place. Though this may seem exciting and adventurous enough, it is not that easy. Moving from your old house to a new home comes with a lot of baggage – both literally and figuratively.

In this write-up, I’ll be taking some reference from Laura Smith’s amazing video:

If you haven’t checked the video out, please do because she has some of the best packings and moving tips in the industry.

Now, let’s get started with fabulous moving tips:

Make a moving binder

Moving binder is can be manually created or, you can also download it online and get a printout. The moving binder will sort 50% of all the problem you may have. Packing and moving is a tedious task and so, it is advisable to deal it a bit more professionally.

A moving binder will help you with it. Prepare the front page by naming all the areas of your new home. Now prepare the subsequent pages with the room dynamics and how you’d like to place your furniture, electronics, and other stuff.

Make sure to index the boxes in the binder. Use label sheets or sticky sheets to index the boxes and their contents.

Note: Do not use sticky notes or label sheets directly on wooden or glass furniture. Sometimes, it becomes a task to remove those sticks from your furniture.

Make a special moving kit bag

A moving kit bag has turned out to be a lifesaver for me many a time. Being an adherent mover, I speak volumes for having a handy kit bag. Ideally, I’d suggest you have a medium sized plastic/cloth bag which has a zip. That would be more than enough. The moving binder, that you just made, can find a place in your moving kit. Along with marker pens, sticky notes, cello tapes, a pair of small scissors, a measuring tape, and a small notebook – your special moving kit bag is good to go.

Why is it so important to have an organized moving experience?

Well, for starters, an unorganized move will always end up with clumsy works being done. You forgetting to pack some of your stuff is an important reason why you should be keeping notes. While it may look a bit nerdy but remember, it is better than forgetting to pack your favorite set of earrings or your pet’s dishes. No matter how small a thing is, keeping tracks of it is anyway beneficial. However, if you don’t want to do these things by yourself, you should contact for professional moving help.

Well, apart from these tips, remember to start packing as early as possible. Make sure that you change the billing address for the utility bill, food deliveries, other amenities. These little things will help you in conducting a properly organized move.